In a few minutes a chorus of snoring folks up and down the east coast will usher in my 34th birthday.
Last Tuesday I sat down and did a little scrapbooking with the kids. This is not a task I enjoy, but I’ve got tons of pictures that need to be saved and the kids really get a kick out of looking at them. Did I mention there were a ton of pictures? So many, in fact, I must have been saving them for at least 17 years to amass them. That’s half my life time.
I ran across one picture that made my heart stop. Thank God the ICD is turned off. It’s amazing what emotion a silly little photo can stir. From 17 years ago. Half my life.
On a shelf in my closet there is a jewelry box that contains a small promise ring given as a gift to a young girl on her 17th birthday. From half my life time ago, I cannot remember what the promise was. I do recall that by Christmas of the same year, the promise was broken. The ring was tucked away and the boy was never quite forgotten.
Seventeen is a horrible age to be so impressionable. I wonder if 34 is any better.





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September 15, 2008 at 7:40 pm
Michele Bernard
Happy Happy Birthday! May you continue to grow in wisdom and grace, Peace, Michele:)
great post
September 16, 2008 at 4:23 pm
unnamed high school pal
So just why was 17 so impressionable and why as adult women are we haunted by those impressions? It definitely wasn’t the happiest or least complicated… I wish I knew the answer or how to forget the boy not quiet forgotten…and what do you do when the boy not forgotten is now a very present man? Is that person really making new impressions or are they just toying with your previous imprints?
Let me know if you can figure all of that out before I turn 34…
September 16, 2008 at 4:28 pm
serenawelsh
Way to go. Give me a week to answer all your mysteries of life.
Tough ones, for sure….Happy that my imprints aren’t being toyed with.
September 18, 2008 at 1:08 pm
dawn & john
Happy, happy day and 34th year to you! Excellent post.
You must be an ‘old soul’…you’re wiser than your years.
Uh, or maybe it’s me who’s immature?
October 3, 2008 at 10:53 pm
unnamed high school pal
Get thee to the theater and see Nights in Rodanthe. Seriously…actually set in NC? The opening song…the universe is talking to me…what the hell is it saying???
October 4, 2008 at 3:08 am
serenawelsh
More amazingly than being a movie SET in NC – it was actually FILMED in Rodanthe. Nicholas Sparks always writes about NC.
Personally, I can’t read his stuff. He writes like a love sick 13 year old girl. I bet he keeps a journal of poetry about unicorns.